How To Text A Girl You Just Met
Do not go too boring with the girl you just met.
Don't get boring and simple with your messages to her like: "What's up?" or "How are you doing?", " Hope you fine?" or "Any gist?" - those questions are quite irrelevant for a girl you just met. If you want to maximise your chances with her for a reply, try to be more creative and always come up with interesting discussion. Read through the points, as i briefly explain below.
Get Her Attention
You should know most guys are after her and a hot girl likely has men pursuing her at all times, so it means you need to be original when interacting with her to keep you stand-out from other competitors.
Imagine the girl just coming inn from a long night trip, taking off her dress and just about to lay down on her bed, suddenly her phone start blowing up of recent guys calls she met. It most likely, that you won't be the only one reaching out to her or texting her, so it is necessary that you do your best to be original.
Ideally, to begin your conversation safe, you could go by beginning your conversation with real-life experience you had with her, take it slow and gentle on her. If perhaps you don't know anything about her other than the fact that she's hot, engage safe, keep it simple and don't overthink it too much. Begin with a simple, friendly path that makes her feel good to read. This leaves the conversation open and you know if she's free to chat.
"Hey, what are you doing young lady?"
If she's busy at the moment, she"ll tell you or reply when she has time.
Use what you know about her
This actually can be a good starting point in differentiating yourself from other guys and gives her the intuition that you've actually paid attention to what she his or what she's been saying. It could be she mentioned in one of you guys discussions about her love to see a movie or that she's about to attend an interview. Ask her about it.
- "Hi Debby, how was your interview? Did you nail it?
When she replies, you can continue:
- " oh, that's good! Congrats. Take up your bag, let's go out for a drink to celebrate the success."
Keep It Brief
Keep your conversation short, not too elaborate, sappy or desperately needy. Don't flow in the lines of other guys who overly write sentimental missives to their unrequited loves.
Go by the length of her written words. If she responds in 2 - 3 words, you may not seem too proposing using 4 - 5 lines of text to reply.
Concentrate On Your Real Goals
Your reason for reaching out to her is to take her out on a date. Make it known. Don't forget that texting isn't your main goal, minutes in real life are worth more than a thousand text messages. This is to avoid wasting time on girls who only want to text for fun.
Tease Her To Laugh
Women see a sense of humour in a man as one of the most important qualities a man can have. For example,
- "you realise, i got a flat tire just by imagining how hot you were today".
Teasing as to do with the right moment, wait for it and tease her. For example, when you message a girl, make your text funny or about something that happened to you. " you caught her cat-working out of a supermarket. Ask her if she did that for you?".
Flirt with her
Women love it when a man isn't afraid of being a bit naughty and playful. Flirt with her when you get a chance. A good way of going naughty in your conversation is by telling her that you just entered the shower.
However, avoid flirting with every text. It'll just bore her if all you do is flirt with her.
Don't blow up her phone
This is very important, blowing up her phone will only make you boring and unattractive, whoever is putting the most effort into communicating is the one doing the chasing. So if you want to have any shot of getting a girl to chase you, then you mustn't over text.
Choose The Right Time To Text Her
There are good moments to text a girl, avoid texting or calling her when you know she's busy. She needs to feel excited about reading your texts.
Text during the evening
It's widely known that the evening during the working days are relaxation period. Bing her cell phone once and wait for her response...if she replies, then keep it subtle. If the girl you like is comfortable texting into the night, means you've got an edge you need. There is something very romantic particularly about a late-night text that will surely work in your favour.
Don't send messages repeatedly
Avoid repeated messages. Don't text a girl twice without her replying back. If you perhaps don't get an answer to your text messages don't get too snappy but continue to send one after the other.
Don't panic if after a few hours the girl doesn't respond. Many things can happen and don't text messages like "hey, what's up you?, why not replying my texts?", you only showing desperation and you lose your chance with her. Remember that you want her, but don't need her. The sooner you get that straight, the better for you and the more chances of her to like you increase.
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